I dont get it aquarius!?

I have a crush on an aquarius nd ima cancer so last week i was actin like myself txtin her all tha time nd buggin her for a date so she rarely tlked 2 me. after takin sum advice ive been actin mysterious i would say 1 thing nd walk away nd i never txt her nemore is that a good thing? im confused bt now i can tell she likes me cuz shes always staring at me nd bailed on her friend 2 come tlk 2 me 4 one minute lol so how do i kno on how not to be too pushy or a little pushy i hate not talkin 2 her i wanna get 2 kno her! :)